Definition

Noun: A middle-aged or elderly woman who is notably elegant, sophisticated, and commands great respect, often due to her long-standing prominence in a particular field, society, or the arts.

Usage

This term is used to describe a woman who is considered a leading, authoritative, and dignified figure. It implies a combination of age, impeccable style, significant social or professional standing, and often a sense of tradition. It is a term of high respect and admiration.

Examples

• She is considered the grande dame of American theater, having performed for over five decades.
• The grande dame of the fashion industry arrived at the gala, elegant as ever.
• As the grande dame of the literary salon, her opinions on new writers were highly influential.

Advanced Usage

• The term can sometimes be used with a slightly ironic or humorous tone to describe someone who acts with an air of superior authority, even in a minor context.
  • She's the grande dame of our book club and decides what we read each month.

Variants and Related Words

• Doyenne (noun): A woman who is the most respected or prominent person in a particular field. This is a very close synonym, often used in professional contexts.
• Matriarch (noun): A woman who is the head of a family or tribe. This emphasizes familial authority rather than public style and respect.
• Icon (noun): A person regarded as a representative symbol, especially of a culture or movement. This is a broader term that can apply to anyone of iconic status, regardless of age or gender.

Synonyms

• Doyenne
• Leading lady
• Eminent woman
• Respected elder

Antonyms

• Nobody
• Nonentity
• Upstart (implies a lack of the earned respect inherent in "grande dame")

Related Idioms

• The grand old dame of...: A common phrasing used to specifically honor a long-standing institution or even a place (e.g., a historic hotel or theater) personified as a respected elderly woman.
  • The Ritz Hotel is the grand old dame of Parisian luxury.

Noun

1. a middle-aged or elderly woman who is stylish and highly respected